Title. Just realized I have nothing to wear under my college graduation robes in two weeks. I talked with my parents and we generally agreed on what to get, but the specific examples my mom sent me feel like way too much of a feminine cut for my own tastes. If I'm going to get some nicer formalwear in time for this event, I'm going to need to do it this weekend... this is what I get for putting it off. Anyways, here's what I talked about with my mom and generally what I'm thinking: White, long-sleeve button up. This is where my mom and I are mostly on the same page. I want something simple a ..read more

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So, lately I've kinda grown tired of these flimsy tiny boxers they sell for woman that just is barely a short. I've heard of Woxer and Tomboyx but €30 for a single boxershort? + The shipping costs since I'm from Europe. That's a lot for just 1 piece of underwear. So I'd love to know where y'all buy boxers shorts. Also don't wanna take men's shorts though. submitted by /u/Elena_519 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I am 33 and since I was a wee little one my mom let me get clothes out of the boys section. I grew up masc/butch and had friends who were the same. Now i appreciate that since the pandemic is seems more and more people are getting comfortable with playing with gender norms but I feel like there is a lot of people wearing one item of men's clothing and calling themselves masc/butch. I know it's a spectrum but as someone who has been flying this flag for decades sometimes I feel like they are taking my label and misusing it. Idk. It's probably just pettiness and I should let it go. Has anyone e ..read more

just to give a preface im very androgynous appearance wise and an mistaken for a boy quite often even tho i am quite scrawny and not muscular at all. i am thinking about dorming at monmouth university, i live around 45 minutes away and thats without traffic/ weather conditions so i figured dorming would be better, along with the experience of dorming and getting involved on campus but now i am hesitant due to bathroom situations. I have been chatting with another masculine presenting lesbian about dorming so it is not really a roommate i am worried about. for the freshmans and sophmores there ..read more

It seems like you babes could use a thread where those of us who find Butches hot AF can just sound off and tell you why. I'll kick it off: I am driven to distraction by a butch with a fresh haircut. Specifically the nape of their neck when it's just been clipperd. So dang sexy. Every time. So, let's hear it. Whether you're one of the lurking femmes like me, or another butch. submitted by /u/MissionFloor261 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Hey all, I have some stuff I have really loved that doesn't really fit me any longer for various reasons. Eg a pair of high quality work pants with loads of life left in them, a couple Kirrin Finch shirts, and a suit that I bought when I was ten years leaner. I could try posting them on like eBay but it'd be really nice to offer them to some fellow queer people first. Are there, like, Facebook groups or websites y'all look at that might be a good option for that kind of thing? If not, I know I can post on eBay and/or donate them somewhere. Just seems a waste of the nicer stuff, and we all see ..read more

I've been lurking here the past couple of weeks trying to figure out what's going on with my sexuality and gender at the moment. I already know that I’m somewhere on the nonbinary end of gender. I've identified as a lesbian a few years ago (around 15), but later switched to queer as a label since I ended up dating a few guys along the way. Yet have said stuff before years ago that like that I would "never want to marry a man” and that's still true now, the thought of it irks me in the worst way possible. The thought of even dating or being attracted to a guy right now is so indifferent to me ..read more

I’m a person who dresses very buttoned up—as in, crawling hands-and-knees through tunnels in a full wool suit. However, no matter how hard I try, I can’t find a nice dress shirt that accommodates my very curvy figure. Any recommendations for shirts that don’t bust open at the tits? submitted by /u/segoe_the_serpent [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

Cupid crossplay by the iconic drag king called "River Glass". submitted by /u/DoNotTouchMeImScared [visit reddit] [comments ..read more