This may be long but I'm hoping that someone can find this helpful. I am well aware that this experience may not be available to everyone or anyone. And I'm changing some details to remain anonymous (there maybe people who can determine my identity if I don't!) I am over 50, been married to my wife for 15+ years and we've been together for over 20 years. Unfortunately, Lesbian Bed Death (LBD) has stricken our bedroom more that 8 years ago and we are getting older and there doesn't seem to be sexual desire on my wife's part. When I went through menopause more than 5 years ago, I thought my hig ..read more

I just need to get this off my chest. A couple nights ago, my gf and I were getting heated. She's not been into receiving oral much, found it underwhelming with previous partners. We'd tried it a couple times before, but it wasn't really clicking. A couple nights ago though... ?❤️‍?❤️‍?❤️‍? I hope it was as good for her as it was for me because oh my god I can't get it out of my head!! Her smell, her taste!! looking up at her from between her legs, feeling her buck and wriggle, hearing her moan ❤️‍??❤️‍? I uhh.. Need to go somewhere private submitted by /u/Kquiarsh [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

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Title... Idk if this is a common thing, but I wish my girlfriend would view me as a piece of meat sometimes. Is this a kink maybe? Like if I send her a picture of my "outfit" but I'm actually trying to sexualize myself for her and she doesn't get that and instead compliments my outfit, sometimes I get a little sad bc I wish she'd say something dirty that objectifies me haha. I also love the idea of being "used" by her so I guess maybe this is a kind of kink for me. How could I explore this, should I mention it to her casually or bring it up when we're having sex or something..? I'm so lost, b ..read more

i REALLY hope this doesn’t come of as egotistical or pompous but it’s really annoying needing to reject guys when i make it really obvious when i’m gay. like, when i first meet a new potential guy-friend i make it PAINFULLY obvious that i’m a lesbian. like, explicitly say it multiple times and am just overall kind of obnoxious about it, to avoid any mishaps or confusion. being super open and loud about my sexuality isn’t my cup of tea. i love seeing people so confident but it’s not for me.. so i usually dial it down a lot after i’ve established it’s safe, yk? but it doesn’t work some times. i ..read more

If you msg me on a dating app I will always reply with ‘Hello there.’ If you don’t respond correctly, we will not continue our conversation. I’m too old to screw around. submitted by /u/No_Connection_4724 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

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I’m genuinely curious on this. In my experience with dating lots of women have been put off by the fact. I am and probably will always be a country girl at heart and just can’t imagine not having this part of me. Yes- I do love to wear boots, western fashion, and am on the femme side, so maybe that is off-putting? It kinda makes me feel invalid in a way. I feel like this is a specific, rare breed of lesbian that doesn’t really get talked about or get seen much… submitted by /u/toasty_panther [visit reddit] [comments ..read more