Hello everyone. My fiancé, we will call Jake and I have been together for several months. It was truly love at first sight and we have had a wonderful relationship so far. Well cut to the issue. We were laying in bed and he got a Snapchat (he was sleeping.) The Snapchat was from a girl named Stephanie. I was shocked because we both agreed and promised not to Snapchat the opposite sex. Well I opened it and what I saw was nudes saved in the chat I also recognized her as his best friend, Joes girlfriend…. Stephanie. I started sobbing. My fiancé woke up and was LIVID, screaming and going crazy. H ..read more

I have a rather attractive wife who is also a great partner. She accompanies me to a difficult treatment which will last a month and be daily. The first day the doc was rather talkative and kissed her goodbye quite close to her mouth (we are Latino). Yesterday (second day) he brought some chocolate for her, told her beauty when he gave it to her and ask her to share some with me. When we left she told me that upon his arrival, while i was in the bathroom, he held her face and said something like “I hadn’t realize about your face”. She said she did not feel she was creepy, but rather like an o ..read more

My finance and my mother used to get along great. When we got engaged my mom was overly excited and tried to help plan the wedding more than she should. My finance is anti confrontational and instead of telling her to stop, just blocked her and got mad and complained to me about it. I agree, my mom tried to get too involved. But she has apologized and my finance absolutely hates her now and won’t let it go. Any time the subject of my mom comes up, there is a fight between us. Fast forward to the dance. She is doing a father daughter dance, I assumed we’d be doing a mother son dance but my fia ..read more

Today i came across my mom's journal, I am respectful of people's privacy however, it had a motivational quote on the cover and thought it was some book my mom was probably reading but upon opening the book it turned out it was a journal. I would've closed it but I saw my name on there and decided to read through the whole thing every entry had a date on it and were from 2021. there were mentions of my step dad cheating on her and hanging out with his friends and "other girls". Now this guy has been married to my mom since I was 4 so he's technically been my "dad" but we haven't had the best ..read more

My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year, and recently started sleeping together. I hadn't had sex with any man before, so I was expecting it to hurt a little bit. It did, and so he was careful and said next time it would feel better. But the next time, it still hurt and the next time after that. And it's disheartening. I want to enjoy it, but it's uncomfortable and I can't relax because of that. So I decided to talk to him about it. He was really confused and asked me if it really was still hurting and that it shouldn't be now. Because he's had sex with other people before, I t ..read more

I recently went out to a bar with a live band, and hit it off with a woman who is 42 years old. We were attracted to each other, but nothing happened that night. After being at the bar, the next day ( today ) we decided to go out and grab some food and drinks. However, I just got back to where I'm staying and have now been blocked. During our four-hour conversation at a Tex-Mex restaurant, we had the greatest conversation I've ever had with a woman. She even invited me to go somewhere else. However, when the bill came, I asked to split it. I am not broke, and I have a good job that pays well ..read more

Going through a breakup. Need support. It’s totally my fault and i put myself in that position. I liked someone and i thought they liked me too. I took the initiative and he told me that he is in a phase of life where his job and another secret job (some govt stuff) doesn’t leave space in his life to have a relationship. I had fallen for him so badly that i asked what if we still have a way to work it out. He agreed. I know this was desperate but i liked him so much that i didn’t wonna let the chance go. I should have. What i am feeling is a like a loser. We got into an argument and he said t ..read more

My husband and I have been together 5 years, married for 4. Within our first year of marriage, I found out that he was messaging an ex which was extremely sexual and included photos which were very suggestive. My husband and I reconciled yet this has happen time and time again, with both her and other women. In February I found that he was yet again, messaging the ex which was by accident. He gave me his phone so that I could message something to myself and lo and behold, there she was in the common text. I forgave him, however, I told him that it was the last time. Saturday evening I happen ..read more

My partner and I have been together for almost 8 years. We’ve been living together for about 6 of those years. And we went ring shopping in 2020 (as far as I know he hasn’t purchased the ring nor has made plans to propose). I’ve had multiple sit down conversations with him where I openly and honestly talked to him about what works and doesn’t work for me in a relationship. We have two major issues in our relationship which is his excessive drinking/ staying out late without communicating, and our intimacy. I feel like I’ve been patient and have given him multiple opportunities to grow as a pe ..read more

I met with a woman on a dating app over coffee today. We were mutually interested in something casual and eventually went back to my apartment to have sex. We get into it but the more we progress I stopped feeling like I wanted to. I asked her if we could stop, I felt like I didn’t like the idea of moving fast as much as I thought. She quickly redressed and left, and messaged me saying the ordeal made her uncomfortable. I apologized and said hooking up sounded fun at first, but I changed my mind. She said I initiated it and made her feel like an unattractive idiot, and that she wished I was m ..read more