The journey through grief is one no one wants to take, but it is one we must all endure at some point in our lives. It is a matter of survival, and in survival situations we must accept the unacceptable.   Nothing really prepares us for the loss of a loved one. This is especially true in situations where the death was abrupt and unexpected. The passing could be due to an accident, the onset of a sudden illness, or even due to murder—nothing prepares you for that. Even in situations where you know your loved one is going to die due to a terminal illness, nothing really makes one ready to a ..read more

As a nation we are once again witnesses to the senseless mass murders. The brutal slayings in Uvalde and Buffalo are the latest in a long line of horrific acts of violence inflicted by deranged minds driven by anger, bigotry hatred, violence, mental illness and fanaticism. Sadly, this is the world within which we reside. Although I normally avoid politics, I believe it is time we insist our politicians take action. The Native Americans have a saying that “the right wing and the left wing are part of the same bird.” Sadly, this bird has failed all of us by not enacting legislation to keep autom ..read more

We’ve all heard of “Karma,” the proverbial “whatever you do comes back on you.” Although Karma is a Hindu concept all belief systems teach you can’t escape the consequences of your negative actions. To paraphrase Galatians 6:7 in the Bible “whatever a man sows, this he will also reap.” It’s easy to be cynical about Karma. We’ve all seen criminals and bullies who hurt others and always seem to get away with it. Don’t we want them to suffer “Instant Karma” where they’re immediately punished for the harm they’ve inflicted? Although Karma isn’t instant, it touches everyone and can take years to re ..read more

A few years ago I had a personal trainer who’d served as a special operations Force RECONN Marine. To describe him as intense would be an understatement. He was tough and somewhat humorless, but definitely an excellent fitness coach. During one session he drastically increased the weight I was supposed to lift. When I complained, he glared at me, “SUCK IT UP! You can do this! You’re a healthy man! NEVER take your good health for granted!” Not one to argue with a special ops Marine, I “sucked it up” and summoned the energy to finish the set. Although my self-esteem was a tad singed he was right ..read more

While the Beatles weren’t my generation’s music neither is Mozart’s music but I listen to that because genius is timeless! Going strong at 78 Sir Paul McCartney recently scored another #1 hit album with McCartney III. Fame though, is a double edged sword as demonstrated by the headlines “Sir Paul McCartney talks to tree that is ‘spirit of George Harrison.’” These headlines are misleading as it implies there’s something wrong with Sir Paul. During an NPR Interview McCartney said he feels George Harrison’s spirit around a tree Harrison gifted him. What Sir Paul McCartney described is a “Frequenc ..read more

During this COVID-19 coronavirus pandemic it is very easy to buckle under the stress and fear surrounding us. So many of us are out of work and wondering when and if the next paycheck will come. Being in quarantine makes us feel closed in, trapped even. Then there is the disease itself, an insidious and highly contagious virus which is spreading like wildfire throughout our country and the world. It doesn’t discriminate and no one is immune. These are truly terrifying times, and as a spiritual teacher my responsibility is to inspire others during these dark and challenging times. But how? And ..read more

Coping with loss is always painful and unfortunately the holidays intensify that pain. What is supposed to be the happiest and most magical time of the year becomes sad, agonizing and lonely for those grieving the loss of a loved one. In my work as a psychic medium, one of the many uplifting things I’ve learned from spirits is they don’t want you to be sad. One of the reasons I wrote the books Never Letting Go and Evidence of Eternity, is to demonstrate how spirits are pure energy and connected to us. That energetic connection has another name: LOVE! My late friend, mentor and priest Father So ..read more

One of the new concepts introduced in Evidence of Eternity is “Multiple Meaning Messages.” A multiple meaning message occurs during when a reading the medium receives a piece of information which contains more than one level of information. Like communication in the material world, communication with spirits contains nuances, subtleties, and words with several connotations. Multiple Meaning Messages convey a lot of information and are very powerful. I never want to know anything about a client I’m conducting a reading for nor do I want to know anything about the spirit(s) the client wants to c ..read more

Do you suffer from migraines? If so, there is hope! It is estimated that 13% of the U.S. population suffer from migraines. This is over 37 million people! A migraine is more than just a headache, it is a debilitating condition which causes people to miss work, school and family activities. Migraines drain you emotionally, physically, spiritually and financially. I am not a doctor, however my work as personal injury attorney, psychic medium and medical intuitive involves healing. This has led me to discovering a treatment which can “outmaneuver” migraines. In my personal injury law practice, m ..read more

Those who hate and inflict death, destruction and grief do not make victims who cower in the darkness, instead they create giants who stand in the Light. ~Mark Anthony Today Is Not That Day Certain days are painful reminders of the loss of a loved one. September 11 is a day which symbolizes loss and grief on a mass scale, and yet brings it home to all of us on a personal level. Today Is Not That Day is an affirmation designed to help those suffering from the loss of a loved one. Affirmations are positive statements said to yourself to help uplift you from a negative to a more positive state of ..read more