One of my most perplexing anxieties not to everyone else but also myself has been what happens when someone at my size gets comfortable with her sexuality (and my reference here is specifically to the body standards). Now I don’t mean to go on and rant about how one needs to be body positive or  harp on or whine why we need this, it’s just that I have been quite comfortable with myself. Sure there are instances where I'm taken aback but that’s more to do with the label it comes with -easy lay, BBW, the fetishism, Thicc, Big Booty, chunky, flabby, plump, stout, ample,bearish, Big tits etc ..read more

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One of those perfectly gloomy days I really don't know if I should be blaming the monsoon but the melancholy has surrounded me over 15 /20 days now...heck as I write it down I feel even more. Is it to do with the fact that I am home for my summer vacations(Yes I'm one of those people pursuing a job that allows me summer vacation-For those of you who do not know I'm a lecturer -an adjunct one for Pearl and NIFT Mumbai).You see what I did there? I tried to make myself better by spelling out my profession-and sometimes I feel it's become a complete extension of my demeanor & possibly the onl ..read more