Hi guys, recently divorced here. I was in an abusive marriage and I finally decided to end it, I have a toddler so it wasn’t an easy decision, realizing the dream I had for my family is over. It may sound stupid but one of the things that made me stay in a bad marriage was the fear of being alone, without a romantic partner, without a chance to build a family like I wanted. I am 28, but how do you meet and date people when you already have a kid? submitted by /u/-Bears_Beets- [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I filed for divorce on March 2023 and sent notice to my ex husband but he did not acknowledge it instead he file another case in court few months later that he wants me back to his house and like this we had two open court case. I have been going and attending the court case which he has filled but he didn't appear a single divorce case which I have filled so I received exparte divorce on December 2023 from my hometown civil court where i filled the divorce case. But the court case which he has opened is still on and running and they call for mediation and the next hearing is after 2 months I ..read more

Im literally dying inside. I've been having martial problems for awhile now but over the last couple months it's gotten really bad. After a Friday night argument, I feel like divorce is my only option left. I truly love my husband and am dying for him to just love me back. It's taking time for me to accept that's never going to happen and it's killing me. I'm ok for the most part but there are days that I feel anxious AF and about to have a panic attack, like now. There are also days that I find myself drowning in my vices and not caring if I die. I'm wanting to turn a new leaf but I don't kn ..read more

After a long and terrible year plus. Being cheated on while freshly postpartum. I think tomorrow is my day 1. I could go into detail with all of the things he’s done but there’s no point in rehashing it. He’s been a horrible husband. He does not care about me. And I know I need to walk away and that I should have months or possibly years ago. I’m only 22 and I’m terrified to be getting divorced. But since seeking counseling I realized he is emotionally abusive and that I will not let this fucked up shit become my story or my kids story. I plan on going to my counseling in the morning and then ..read more

Good day everyone, Wanting to vent and get some advice. What do you do when your ex isn’t following your time sharing agreement and your kids only talk to you in the form of text messages (time sharing agreement specifically mentions face to face communication). What can you do to connect? What can you do without getting an attorney? Is spending thousands of dollars worth it if all that changes is some face to face time. There’s many other details but I’m not here to feel validated. I want the truth. Thank you in advance for the advice. I’m just feeling lost and heartbroken ?? submitted by ..read more

Hey yall, I don't use reddit much but I decided to make this post because I could use some guidance on divorce because I am so new to it. I (22 F) got married to a guy and 3 months into the marriage found out he was cheating on me and decided to call it quits (I was NOT about to tolerate that). Now before everyone starts to judge me for marrying so young and etc. please be kind and realize we all have different lives and at the time I got married, this felt right, and it's okay to realize that you've made a mistake. That being said, it definitely destroyed me and the day I found out I kicked ..read more

Why did we fall so far? Why is your family like that? Looking back on it all I think that was the issue, you were never taught to love yourself and you seek validation from others by manipulating them for their sympathy. It's what you were taught and how you survived. Now I am not sure I can even trust any of the things you've said to me. Why that specific person? Were you done and this was your way of finally forcing my hand because you were too much of a coward to just leave? After everything we thought through? I wish I could truly know if you think a line was crossed or if you think it's ..read more

My STBXH's co -worker came to my job and told me he's been cheating for at least two years. I moved out two months ago, filed last month, so we are already seperated. We are basically no-contact. I know most of his co-workers and have always been friendly with them, though not really close. Last I heard, he was on good terms with all if them, so I was really shocked when this happened. BUT i don't think its a lie, because what would be the point? In fact, my first reaction was "Well add it to the fucking list!", which says a lot right there. I never thought he was a cheater, but i can't hones ..read more

I wanted to do this with you, not in spite of you. You are the only person that had the advantage of truly being able to break me, and you chose to do exactly that. Now I want to unbreak myself and throw it in your face. I think everything would have been better if you could have at least pretended to be in support of me for more than five minutes. But you did worse, you made me feel like a fool to think I could create or do anything worth a damn. So what now, I leave you and become successful as an act of hatred? I don't know why you wanted to force this fate on us. You had someone willing t ..read more

So some of you will have read my story, but in short we were separated under the same roof for 12+ months and things were getting better. However as soon the STBXW met another man on Hinge she ended it. it has been a month and I am feeling the most positive I have in years and I have started to see how bad she was towards me and I was just accepting it. I know it takes time to heal but in a way the past 12 months I was doing a lot of internal work and wanted to make sure I was going to be okay should the inevitable happen. During this time the STBXW was smoking pot and just being destructive ..read more