During divorce proceedings, listen to your gut instinct It can steer you in the right direction. When something seems a bit off, go with your feelings rather than trying to rationalise what your intuition is telling you. When a negotiation appears to be acceptable, yet does not seem quite right, take a pause. Say you require more time. Then get in touch with your gut feelings. What is intuition? The Max Planck Institute in Berlin states that intuition is a “form of unconscious intelligence.” It is derived from the Latin verb intueri which means to look inside.  When feeling caught The pos ..read more

Parents who get along well after their divorce are 53% likelier to say their kids adjusted well than parents who get along badly. Could this encourage co-parents to act civilly for the sake of the kids? The new data released also shows that the parent who files for divorce is 14% likelier to get the custody time they want or more. Custody X Change, a co-parenting app, surveyed 1,000 people who had a divorce involving child custody in the past two years. Participants were U.S.-based and completed the survey last month. “This data has the potential to help a parent The post Make Peace With Your ..read more

Pre-nups are in headlines as Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck face a messy and complicated divorce amid reports that they tied the knot without one in 2022. While the assets of the high-profile stars, who are jointly worth $550 million, are a far cry from those of most divorcing couples, pre-nups – which set out how finances will be resolved – continue to be on the rise. This is because more couples embarking on marriage want to protect themselves and their assets, avoiding the potential distress, acrimony, and expense of disentangling their finances if they break up. The growing popularity The ..read more

“When my parents got divorced, I was just a baby and had no idea what it felt like to have two parents together. Children at any age grieve the loss of their family.” What is Grief? In very simple terms, grief is a reaction to loss. When we think of grief, we often think of a death loss, but grief is much broader than most think, and it can be felt for various reasons. Children are not immune to feeling these emotions. Many parents who go through a breakup or divorce may not even recognise that their children may also The post How Co-Parents Can Create a Safe Haven for Grieving Children appear ..read more

Going through a divorce is a stressful time that can cause conflict between both parties. Specialist family lawyer and qualified collaborative practitioner Emma Davies shares her top tips with us to ensure as smooth a transition as possible into the next chapter of your life. Understand your financial situation One of the important things you will need to consider is the distribution of financial assets. Estimating the value of the marital pot will help give you an idea of what you may be entitled to as the Court’s starting point is equal sharing of matrimonial assets.  Giving considerati ..read more

As we move further into 2024, divorce continues to be a significant and evolving aspect of family law in the UK. Understanding current trends can help you navigate the complexities of divorce, whether you’re considering it yourself or simply want to stay informed. Here’s what you need to know about the latest divorce trends in 2024. 1. Divorce Applications: A Shift Towards Sole and Joint Applications The landscape of divorce applications has seen a notable shift in 2024. In the first quarter of the year alone, there were 20,769 applications for sole divorce cases and 7,139 applications for joi ..read more

Travel is the best way to get lost and found at the same time – Brenna Smith Have you ever taken a solo vacation? I’ve just returned from a week of solo travel in Australia, and it’s inspired me to reflect on the joy of travelling alone. Solo travel is personally fulfilling in so many ways. I know many people don’t agree with this one. Several people have told me they are hesitant to vacation alone, especially after coming out of a marriage or long-term relationship. I understand. I used to feel the same way. But there’s something so liberating The post Solo Travel After Divorce Can Be a Power ..read more

Divorce isn’t just the end of a marriage; it’s a profound life transition, requiring not only legal adjustments but deep emotional resilience. As someone who has been through this experience myself, I understand the complexity of feelings and decisions you face during this challenging time. For nearly two decades, I have had the privilege of supporting individuals like you in rebuilding their lives after divorce. Sarah started our session together sharing that she felt lost and overwhelmed after her 17-year marriage ended abruptly. “I was consumed by anger and resentment. I just coul ..read more

Resolution Together is a new way for separating couples, and for parents who are in dispute about the care of their child, to obtain advice from a single legal professional. This new way of working follows the implementation of the Divorce Dissolution and Separation Act which allowed couples, for the first time, to make joint applications to end a marriage collectively.  As a result, Resolution has developed a new approach to help separating couples. Resolution is a community of family justice professionals who work with families and individuals to resolve issues in a constructive way. Th ..read more

Divorce is a challenging experience filled with complex emotions and big decisions. Among the many issues to address, you will need to decide the fate of the family home. The family home often holds substantial emotional value, making decisions about its future particularly difficult. By understanding your options and approaching the process with open communication, you can work towards a resolution that best suits both yourself and your ex’s needs. Our guide aims to offer an insight into what to expect from the process, helping you along this challenging journey. Understanding Your Legal Posi ..read more