It is ironic that I am writing this post in the first place. I had always been an introvert, someone who had found peace in being by his lonesome, away from the chaos of socializing with people to whom I had no idea if their feelings and thoughts of me were manipulations or genuine. To think I would type this out, ever, only goes to show me how much I've grown desperate...or perhaps how much the attempts of finding your dream beloved have begun to wound me. Now, I find myself unable to just stomach the rejections, the silence, the loneliness that taunts me whenever I have to see those around ..read more

So when you all are breaking up someone or ending something casual, whether it be romantic relationship, a casual friends with benefits situation, someone you dated briefly etc, what is your method of communication? I recently ended a situation with someone. I did it via text because recent events were a big signal to me that things needed to end asap and our conversations in person were always counterproductive. He responded back saying he hopes I got whatever closure I needed (I didn’t send it for closure lol) and he said he wasn’t reading it. So ??‍♀️ it’s a little hurtful but the message ..read more

It’s been probably over a year since I’ve been on Tinder. I was in Hinge for a few months and wasn’t having any luck. I think my profile is behind a paywall or something because in two days I’ve only got three likes. On Hinge I would have at least five a day. And I keep getting the same profiles of other people over and over, including ones I’ve already liked. Am I going to have to pay to get my profile and likes seen? submitted by /u/ghostConethirtyseven [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I started dating a new guy and I really liked him. I knew him through brief interactions previously. We had sex. Though amazing, I was nervous. It was daytime, I was self conscious. I couldn't orgasm. He seemed very offput by this. Things seemed weird. He kissed me goodnight differently. A few days later I texted him "You taking me to o-town??" And he said "lol apparently I don't know where that is.." Then I said "You know I'm hot for you. Be my hero" 35 minutes later he didn't respond. I ended up ending it by saying "Look, I know you're not that into me. It was fun, no hard feelings✌️" And h ..read more

Recently, I (23M) had been dating a woman (22F), and it looked as though all signs were pointing to a relationship. She was pretty much everything I could want in a woman. Smart, beautiful, funny, outgoing, ambitious, the list goes on. We had great conversations, we went on fun dates, we both embraced getting to know each other, and we had even verbally communicated that we were interested in seeing what the long-term future could hold for us. Well, turns out the long-term future didn’t have much for us lol. About a week and a half after we had the “intentions” talk, she decided that she didn ..read more

Been dating this girl for a couple of months now. She says it takes her a while to develop feelings. Unfortunately for me, I already developed some. Not sure if I should I should bail so that I don’t get hurt even more later on, or if I should be patient. submitted by /u/idkokay123 [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

A part of me is saying screw it an shoot your shot I’ve been hanging out with this girl for a little now an I’m more than sure she’s into me, she asked if I was seeing anyone else or driving any of my co workers home, we flirt a lot so I’m more so here to see if it’s a good idea for when I see her tonight that I should put my hand on her leg like her friend will be with us cause I’m dropping them off a city over but just wanna lay it on the line or maybe it a thing to do alone with her. I drive a manual mustang so shifting will have to happen but I’d like to grab her leg or something to see w ..read more

So i meet this girl 6 months ago, we started to hang out and became really good and close friends, in the past 3 months we started to hang out almost daily, talk about everything, we realised that we have same type of personality and same way of thinking. In the course of last 3 moths i fell in love with her, but there is a problem, she is a lesbian. At first i tried to shake of my feelings for her, then she started flerting with me, I started to flert back, then we shake it of with she is a lesbian. We do it almost everyday. A few nights ago we were walking through the city, and there was so ..read more

Funny guys will make you laugh and laugh then boom you’re naked. Lmao submitted by /u/annabellepeachez [visit reddit] [comments ..read more

I feel like a shitty person for this but I’ve had such bad experiences in the past with dogs and even from owners that say “they don’t bite” that I don’t even want to be around them. I have had a couple dates where the dog would come to me for a kiss or two on the hand and then leave me alone which was fine and I would even warm up to them to even pet them. But then I’ve had the bad experiences where I’m bleeding and being attacked by a dog while the owner(my date even) does absolutely nothing about it and then blames me for it. I’m completely terrified of dog bites too because of all the stu ..read more