“How can there be too many children” That is like saying there are too many flowers.” Mother Teresa When writing about National Infertility Awareness Week it is hard to know where to start.  The insidious disease affects 1 in every 8 people in this world, all of whom only want one thing…to grow their family with children.  And, as spring unfolds once again and flowers are blooming, this quote is quite poignant.  When starting to write this arti ..read more

February is the month of love! And, although not romantically speaking, I love all of our surrogates at Tomorrow’s Parents International. I do have one particular surrogate that I want to write about, Shanny! We once had a difficult match. The Intended Mother was not open to communication. This is hard, but understandable. As a beautiful, successful, athletic woman, she could do anything except give her husband and their family a child. After several miscarriages they had turned to surrogacy. Our routine initial phone call was a bit awkward, but then the Intended Mother said these words I wi ..read more

Definition of surrogate mother: a woman who becomes pregnant usually by artificial insemination or surgical implantation of a fertilized egg for the purpose of carrying the fetus to term for another woman. Sorry, but Webster’s didn’t nail this definition! Although technically correct, this doesn’t even begin to properly describe the selfless, giving, caring women who devote at least a year of their lives to help a couple fulfill their dreams of parenthood! Yes, there are medications, doctors’ appointments, morning sickness, hormones, bedrest and of course labor, all the while caring for their ..read more

As the year winds down, I can’t help but reflect, and the only feeling I have is gratitude. Yes, TPI has met with success beyond what I could have imagined. When I see the social media of the families that we helped create it makes my heart sing! I am so happy for these families, the people that wanted twins and are now changing diapers more than they ever expected! And, those that are appreciating their first born. They touch my heart every day! But, none of it would not be possible without my amazing team that makes it happen ..read more

The Importance And Timing Of A Gestational Surrogacy Agreement The importance of a properly written Gestational Surrogacy Agreement cannot be over emphasized. The timing of the preparation, finalization and execution of said agreement is equally important although there are different schools of thought. After 15 years of working exclusively as an Assisted Reproductive Technology Lawyer and with a focus on Surrogacy Law, it is my firm belief that no medical procedure should occur prior to the Gestational Surrogacy Agreement being signed.  Furthermore, it is ideal to have a Gestational Surrogacy ..read more

Growing up as a young man in Kentucky the thought of infertility and surrogacy never occurred to me.  My journey with it all started when I was presented with an opportunity to work with Sara Clay who is a highly recognized reproductive law specialist, both nationally and internationally. The most important lesson I have observed from Sara is that there is nothing more important than our clients and the goals we share with them of having a family and helping those families. Although I was excited about the opportunity to work with her, at the time, I had no idea the blessing and journey that I ..read more

HOPE + LOVE = SURROGACY “When the world says ‘give up’, HOPE whispers ‘give it one more try” Being a reproductive attorney, and founder of Tomorrow’s Parents International, I know that my office can be a place of last resort.  It is rare that clients excitedly enter, but it is often that they exit inspired, and do so with hope for the future that their dreams of parenthood will become a reality. No one wishes to experience the heartache, disappointment, judgment and frustration that all too often come with becoming parents through surrogacy. When necessary intended parents understand the need ..read more

Are You Considering Surrogacy? Surrogacy is never a “straightforward” situation or choice. So many variables go into each case, which is why the experience has such a substantial influence on everyone involved. For the parents who eagerly want a baby but can’t have one on their own, it’s the answer to a life-changing dream. As for the surrogate, it’s the opportunity to help a loving family come to life. Both the intended parents and the surrogate will experience a journey that can never be put into words, and this article is going to discuss all the benefits that come with this selfless and lo ..read more

A lot of couples dream of having their own families and raising good children in a loving home. Sometimes, however, circumstances turn out to be a lot more challenging for others. There are certain conditions, for example, that prevent the mother from carrying the baby to full term. Fortunately, nowadays, there is the option of hiring a surrogate, or someone else who will instead carry the pregnancy to ensure that the baby is delivered safely. Furthermore, there are now agencies that can guide aspiring parents through the process, from start to finish. Here are some of the ways a professional ..read more