Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert It’s tough out here for women… and men. Pick Me’s love to cry about, “I’m not a gold diggers or scammer, I’m loyal and take care of my man…” okay Basica, pipe down. Women who want money aren’t the problem, those women who put on masks when dating, are! The mask I’m talking about is about DAMAGE. Deep child hood trauma or past relationship baggage that only comes out months into dating or a relationship. Ladies, a lot of you have red flags that you refuse to see because you think being “nice, loyal, and employed” is all you need to bring to the table. Accountabili ..read more

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert Simp Boys let you walk all over them… Secure Males challenge you… Sassy Men compete with you… On Today’s podcast episode, we’re going to break down several relationship topics, but one in particular is the rise of the “Sassy Man,” those heterosexual guys who bring feminine energy into a relationship instead of being confident, protective, and masculine. A woman recently told me that she was on vacation with her boyfriend in Mexico, and she saw a side of him that was hidden for the first four months since they’ve been together: While walking along a boardwalk ar ..read more

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert 90% of women are after the same 10% of men. First Layer: Attractive, funny, and aggressively masculine in a way that screams "big dick energy," minus the toxicity. This layer is what creates lust and sexual chemistry. Second Layer: Financially stable. Shared beliefs. Steps up without having to be told what to do.  This layer is what creates that deeper "we can build a family and thrive" connection. 90% of men only have 2 of those traits at once. The rest of them are okay looking, sarcastic not funny, overly feminine, don't make much money, or if they do ma ..read more

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert -Good looking men never approach me... -Guys on apps message but are inconsistent... -I don't know what I'm doing wrong that no one chases me. Maybe I need to walk around with my boobs and butt out because clearly that's what men like... Are you done crying? You don't need to walk around with your coochie out to get male attention. A lot of you go online and do THE MOST to get the men you secretly like to notice you, and in the end all you get is the wrong kind of attention from the type of men you don't want. You don't know how to thirst trap. You don't know h ..read more

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert -Good looking men never approach me... -Guys on apps message but are inconsistent... -I don't know what I'm doing wrong that no one chases me. Maybe I need to walk around with my boobs and butt out because clearly that's what men like... Are you done crying? You don't need to walk around with your coochie out to get male attention. A lot of you go online and do THE MOST to get the men you secretly like to notice you, and in the end all you get is the wrong kind of attention from the type of men you don't want. You don't know how to thirst trap. You don't know h ..read more

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert Goddess Mindset = You Can Manifest At Will. The Universe Conspires To Give You What You Need. Life is Amazing. Victim Mindset = You Have Bad Luck. Nothing Ever Works Out. Life Sucks…what’s the point? Every time you step foot outside, you’re either in control or at the mercy of the world you’re living in. You either have the confidence to push through everything that comes your way, or you’re filled with anxiety because you know that you’re not built to be tested. What's the difference between G.O.D Mode (GREATNESS OVER DOUBT) and Victim Mode? Winners believe in ..read more

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert Goddess Mindset = You Can Manifest At Will. The Universe Conspires To Give You What You Need. Life is Amazing. Victim Mindset = You Have Bad Luck. Nothing Ever Works Out. Life Sucks…what’s the point? Every time you step foot outside, you’re either in control or at the mercy of the world you’re living in. You either have the confidence to push through everything that comes your way, or you’re filled with anxiety because you know that you’re not built to be tested. The biggest test I’m emailed about is: How do I find love, keep love, and not fuck it up. Your dati ..read more

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert I once received an email where a woman wanted me to create her online dating profile. I wrote everything up for her in a way that was witty and appealing... then she says "for picutures should I just use face shots, I don't want them to see my body yet..." What the fuck do you mean "yet"? You can't catfish your own dating profile and hope you drop 20 pounds before he asks you out. Men are abundant, thirsty, and easy to snatch. But insecurity has too many of you leading wit the wrong energy! There was a recent internet debate sparked by a tweet that women shoul ..read more

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert Delusion: “The person that’s meant for you will find you.” Reality: People are manipulative, and they will pretend to be everything you’re looking for in order to gain control of your heart and mind. Delusion: We’ve been on and off forever, but we always come back to each other. I think it’s meant to be. Reality: You’re wasting the best years of your life trying to force a person who isn’t right for you because you ignorantly believe that comfort = compatibility. Delusion: I’m going to end up happily married because I’m good, loyal, and I know how to please a m ..read more

Far From BasYc by G.L. Lambert Hey, G.L. I hope this email finds you well. I am a plus sized woman, have been since my mid-20s. I recently reconnected online with a guy from high school and felt really insecure because I’m not the size that he remembers. Despite this, I pushed forward with the date. We’ve been inseparable since and we are currently in a relationship. The issue is I’m in my own head every damn day. He wants to go out, I would rather stay in. He likes to hang with old classmates, I don’t speak to any of those people for fear of being judged. Last week we had “the talk” where ..read more