Let’s talk about a famous self development routine: the thirty day positivity challenge. One thing I’ve learned in my 16 years as a dating coach is that negativity just doesn’t work.  This isn’t pseudo-science. There are countless clinical studies proving the benefits of a positive mindset. Being a positivity guy is one of the fundamentals... The post The 30 Day Positivity Challenge appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

Many guys don’t know how to tell a girl they like her. So they get stuck in the dreaded friend zone without any foreseeable escape.  No late night cuddle sessions, no masterful seduction, no romantic camping trips, no reverse cowboy to doggystyle bang fests.  While it may seem obvious to just tell her how you... The post How To Tell a Girl You Like Her appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

You hear this from dating coaches all the time, that if you want to be good with girls: “You have to master the fundamentals.”  But what do they mean by fundamentals?  Does it mean learning how to mix a dry martini, or put on a rubber with one hand? Yes, both of those are important... The post What Are the Fundamentals for Being Good with Girls? appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

How to seduce a woman. What a loaded question this one is. I’ve spent a good portion of my adult life trying to unravel this riddle, and I think I have a pretty deep understanding of how it works.  And I’m not some natural. I used to be a super shy, almost incel type of... The post How To Seduce a Woman in 4 Easy Steps appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

I’ve been a daygame specialist for many years. But before that, I was a seasoned bar star.  By bar star I mean a socially anxious 27-year-old lost in the wild streets of Montreal. Before this stage of my life I only went to live music venues. I couldn’t stand the mainstream dance music and found... The post Should You Go To Bars Even if You Don’t Like Bars? appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

If you’re Googling, “Why is my wife yelling at me?” then you’re already in a bad spot with your old lady. Most advice will be blue pill, mainstream slop, telling you to be a better listener, empathetic, and more present to her needs, wishes and desires.  They’ll say she’s stressed from work, taking care of... The post Why is My Wife Yelling at Me?  appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

Sometimes it’s difficult to tell when a girl is uncomfortable with you. Especially when the common advice for picking up girls is, “fake it till you make it,” or “always assume your value.”  If you’re not too experienced how can you tell if she’s comfortable or uncomfortable with you? And another question: does it even... The post How to Tell When a Girl is Uncomfortable With You – 25 Signs appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

How do you tell when a girl’s comfortable with you? How do you tell if she’s interested? How do you know if she’s attracted to you? In the pua world they called these IOI’s, or indicators of interest. The untrained are generally horrible at reading a girl’s signals. A guy can spend weeks, months or years... The post How to Tell When a Girl is Comfortable With You  appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

Getting an instant date from day game isn’t that difficult. I’ve had hundreds over the last fifteen years.  They don’t always lead to anything special, but the more time you spend with her, the more likely you are to get a second date and get laid.  Some guys ask me if it’s better just to... The post How to Get an Instant Date from Day Game  appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more

On top of learning how to talk to girls like a Chad and overcoming crippling approach anxiety, one of the hardest aspects of approaching women is handling the rejection: “I have a boyfriend.”  Most of the time she doesn’t actually have a boyfriend, she’s just rejecting you in a less painful way than telling the... The post How to Reply to “I have a boyfriend.” appeared first on Absolute Ability ..read more